Treatyourself to a good massage without going to a beauty salon: it's quitepossible! Just take advantage of romantic moments for a sensual and relaxing massage. Here is the instructions for use to know how to give an effective massage, a massage that soothes tension, boosts libido and revives the erotic potential of each part of the body.
The 10 Golden Rules of a Good Massage
1. We Eat Light Before The Massage
Normal, noquestion of finding yourself smeared because you were on your stomach ... In short,this is the opportunity or never to plan a light and balanced menu!
2. The Room Is Heated Correctly
25 ° is the maximum. You also have to pay attention to the Planet ...Anyway, this massage should titillate you. However, if the temperature of the room is not sufficient, the muscles do not relax, the body tenses up, and one does not take any pleasure. Think you will be naked! Best of all, sit on a heated blanket.
3. We Promote A Zenatmosphere
We dim thelight and switch off the phone so as not to be disturbed. Soft, relaxingmusic in the background should do the trick. Also think about the essential oil diffuser: 3 drops of sweet orange to diffuse soothe tension.
4. We Focus On Comfort
place onthe bed, sofa or floor soft cushions, soft and warm blankets, thick towels thatare pleasant to the skin.
5. We Are Investing In Massage Oils
We choose them relatively fluid and fatty so that it slips anddoes not stick. Avoid paraffin oil, chemical and prefer an organicvegetable oil. As for the flavors, you have the choice: sweet almond, macadamia, apricot kernel, sesame.
6. Take off yourjewelry and cut yournails so as not to hurt your partner.
7. We remain attentive to the feelings of the other The pressure is varied according to its reactions. We settle on his breathing.
8. We Vary The Techniques
Effleurage, kneading, kneading and above all, we avoid scars and varicose veins.
9. We Share
Take turns massaging ,because erotic massage is above all an exchange.
10. We Give Free Rein To Our Inspiration
No need to follow the techniques that we offer you to the letter. Intersect your caresses with kisses and tender gestures.
- How To Massage The Head?
Your lover is lying comfortablyon his back, his head resting on a cushion. Kneel behind him, put yourhands on his forehead and start to touch it: start from the nose and go up to the hair, alternating right hand and left hand. Repeat this movement ten times, varying the intensity of the pressure, according to your partner's wishes. Finally, place your palms on his temples and hold the position for two minutes.
- Why Is It So Good?
Because these caresses stimulate the energy center located behind the forehead,which is also called "the third eye". Results: tensions subside stress disappears, a feeling of well-being invades the person massaged.
- The Right Time To Try It
Rather soft, it is an ideal preamble to other more erotic massages. To bepracticed in the early evening, therefore, to get in good condition. Also perfect for beginners, the quick and easy head massage helps to get acquainted with mutual physical contact.
- The Extra Idea
To further eroticize this sensual massage, do not hesitate to perform smallcircular movements on the scalp, rich in points of sexual stimulation.
- Good To Know
The ear is an ultra sensitive and highly erogenous zone, which, oncestimulated, sends an electric shiver in the pit of the stomach. Take the opportunity to tickle her with your tongue or your hot breath. But beware, some people can't stand to be approached too close to their ear. So we stop at the first sign of rejection.
- How to Massage The Back?
London massage ! Your lover islying on his stomach. Position yourself towards his head and put yourhands flat at the top of his back. Slide your palms gently up to the buttocks, giving a feeling of stretching towards her feet. Squeeze the curve of his buttocks, slide your hands on his sides and then go up to the armpits before pulling the shoulders slightly upwards to return to the starting position. Repeat this movement, increasing the pressure as you go. Do not forget to synchronize your gestures on your partner's breathing: we go down when he exhales, we go up when he inhales.
- Why Is It So Good?
Because it relaxes! Muscle tensions are released under the effect ofenveloping movements. Another benefit: this massage revives the sensitivity of the skin. Chouchou will be even more receptive to your caresses!
- The Right Time To Try It
After a hard day's work, when Chouchou is feeling too stressed or tired forsomersaults. Relaxation and arousal of desire guaranteed!
- The Extra Idea
To vary, know thatthe London an massage is also available on the bust (the movements are thesame as for the back) and on the stomach: stand to the right of your partner, place your hands on his abdomen then massage it in a circular clockwise
direction.
- Good To Know
This massage is actuallycalled "Sensitive Gestalt Massage". We use the term London because this technique was quite simply born in this region of the United States, in the 1960s. Much sexier!
- How To Massage The Bust?
The masseur stands to the rightof his partner, at the level of his hips. He puts his hands on thepectorals / breasts of the patient, wrapping them well, then performs 3 circular movements clockwise for the right breast, counterclockwise for the left breast. Still making these circles, bring together then spread the breasts. Next, slide your fingers from the nipple to the outside of the breast, then gently knead the skin, varying the pressure. To end in pleasure, use your mouth and do not hesitate to gently kiss her chest.
- Why Is It So Good?
The bust and stomach are among the most sensitive parts of the body: the skinaround the collarbone is very thin and therefore very receptive to touch. In addition, in women as in men, the breast is a secondary erogenous zone, which once caressed, causes the excitation of the primary zones (the sexual organs).
- A Good Time To Try It
When you feel your libido at half mast. 30 minutes of sensual bust massageshould be enough to wake up the spirited lovers in you.
- The Extra Idea
Why not use a feather or a light brush to stroke your partner's chest? Theseaerial instruments will make him shiver with pleasure.
- Good To Know
Well stimulated, the tips of the breasts can sometimes lead to orgasm! 24%of the women questioned say that they can enjoy just by letting their breasts caress.
How To Massage The Arms?
Sitting next to Chouchou, takehis right hand in your left hand, stretching out that your right hand isresting on his wrist, fingers pointing towards his shoulder. Gently go up from the wrist to the elbow, then continue up to the shoulder before going down along the arm, always in two steps. Then put your two hands parallel on his forearm and go up to the shoulder,exerting even pressure. back down by releasing the pressure. Repeat this gesture several times.
Finally, grab her right hand between yours and knead her palm with your thumbsbefore sliding your index finger between her fingers. Do the same with the left arm.
- Why Is It So Good?
It is often ignored, but the arms have manyerogenous zones , in particular theelbows, (at the level of the inner fold) the wrists and the hands. Veryrarely caressed on a daily basis (especially the hands!), These parts of the body are therefore particularly sensitive to massages, which provide intense sensations of pleasure.
- The Right Time To Try It
When you feel that the routine is starting to settle in your relationship andthat your daily physical contact is getting scarcer. The sensual arm massage will make you rediscover the other's hands and shoulders and will put back in the center of your caresses those parts of the body too often neglected and reserved for the mundane gestures of everyday life.
- The Idea In Addition
To spice up the massage a bit, you can runyour tongue between your partner's fingers and gently kiss their tips.
- Good To Know
Because of theirsymbolic significance (they protect and coax), the erotic massage of the handsand arms strengthens the feelings within the cup and further binds the partners.
- How To Massage The Buttocks?
Your sweetheart is lying on hisstomach while you sit astride his buttocks. Place your palms flat on hisbuttocks then massage them in circular movements of more and more ample. Gradually increase the pressure. Then place your hands under the right buttocks, and using your thumbs, create a wave of skin that you will bring up by pushing it up to the tailbone. Alternate left buttock and right buttock.
- Why Is It So Good?
Because in both men and women, the posterior is a highly erotic area! Inaddition, in these men, the stimulation points managing the prostate and the production of testosterone are located around the coccyx, near the gluteal fold.
- The Right Time To Try It
When you feel confident enough with your partner to let them admire and kneadyour butt in full light. So avoid during the first dates !
- The Added Idea
Vary your tools! Rather than your hands, put your forearms on her buttocksand make circular movements, from the outside to the inside. Results? Fuller strokes and more intense pressure.
- Good To Know
If light caresses with the fingertips are enough to stimulate the thighs, thebuttocks, which are more muscular, are more suitable for kneading and vigorous.
