A happy ending massage ends in a hand job. People thought that happy ending massage was only done to men in the past. However, women certainly get happy ending massage too. It ends with blow jobs for men, while it concerns clitoral stimulation or fingering for women. A happy ending massage is done for sexual pleasure. Therefore, orgasms and discharge are anticipated. Are you figuring out how to do the massage, yet you are not a professional? Read this article to find out ways to go about it.
Research shows that for couples, massage serves all love languages. The physical touch, quality time since it’s done physically, massage since it’s an act of service, and communication brings word of affirmation.
Prepare For the Massage
Massage is not done in public. You have to get into a room where the client is comfortable, ask them to take off their clothes, and calm down on the massage bed with their face lying down. Depending on the masseuses or the masseur, they may ask either to take off their underwear to be covered with a towel or not.
Set the Mood
The massage will be all about ambiance. According to Field, T et al. (1996), massage therapy reduces anxiety. Set the mood by dimming the lights to keep away from fluorescent lights. Light a few candles. Examine them to see if they have any kind of allergies so that you get the essential oil or lotion. Have some washed sheets, fluffy towels, and a nice outfit to blow up their mind if they are your partner. Play some smooth instrumental music to avoid any diversion. Also, try to decorate the bed with sweet-smelling flowers and a glass of wine.
Start the Massage Slowly and Sensual
Begin with the back using the ‘clients’ preferred massage oil or suitable oil from your examination of their body. Do the massage for about 15 minutes. Lay the ground from the neck, sliding your hands down above the hips in a circular motion or side by side. The fist can be applied if more pressure is needed at the shoulders. Apply pressure using your fingertips in a tight spot, rubbing the area clockwise until it’s freed up.
Slow Down on the Limbs, Hands, Feet, and Ears
You can sweep their hands up and smoothly apply some long strokes on the limbs and legs. Try to massage with your fingers slightly, pulling them or in tiny circles for the toes and fingers.
The ear is one of the areas most people assume during the massage. This is a sensitive organ in the body with many sensory receptors. Slightly press the earlobes between the thumb, and the forefinger rubbed with oil.
Get to Erogenous Zones Like the Nipples and Thighs
The same area in the brain where the touch stimulation to the penis and the clitoris is processed is still the same area where nipple stimulation is processed. Use your fingertips to stimulate their nipple clockwise, then counterclockwise gently. This increases the blood flow to both the genital parts and the nipples.
If they got abs, mostly at the navel and the genitals. Massage in this region directly sends blood flow to the genitals. Turn to their inner thighs and rub them down. Both the men’s and women’s inner thighs are sensitive because they are close to their genitals.
For the Gents
Rub the appropriate massage oil in your hands before spreading it over the testicles and the penis. Strike the penis up and down from the shaft of your partner’s penis using one hand while you use the other hand to rotate his testicles in your hand smoothly. Repeat this for about 5 minutes.
When the stimulation increases, use both hands to rub his penis like you rub a stick to light up a fire. After a while, shift one hand at the top of the penis and the other next to the first hand downwards. Slide your hands one after the other down to the base. Make around 5 strokes, which will be a grand finale for him. He will feel like he is inside a woman’s vagina, pushing it. Some gents can ask to put on a condom. Give them a clean towel and leave them refreshed.
For the Ladies
Vaginas are very sensitive to fluids. It is advisable to shift to water-based lubricants. Choose from the sliquid sassy water-based lube, almost naked, or lulu water-based lube. They have a yummy slight scent, reduce friction, and do not cause infections. Any slight mistake of using any oil is that when it gets in the vagina, it can cause irritation and infections.
Focus on the vulva first because it is visible by rubbing gently on the vaginal lips down to the anus side. Caress the vaginal lips in circular motions with both hands for some minutes. Try to slide your thumbs around till the vaginal lips expand. Use less pressure in caressing the inner lips because they are sensitive. It is normal when the vaginal lips start to swell. It happens when a woman is aroused. Massage the clitoris using your finger up and down for about 5 strokes. Give them a clean towel and leave them refreshed.
CONCLUSION
If you are massaging your partner, be creative, not lying on the massage bed; try to handcuff them or blindfold them. Moreover, try to compliment the fingers with your tongue to massage. For ladies, if you have long hair and do not mind making it oily, use it to massage him. Before shifting to erogenous parts, you should start with the back, feet, shoulder, and hands. Massage should take 30 to 90 minutes.
